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It is a wonderful thing to share our #realworldsex on MLNP.tv / MLNPstars ALEX-ANNA

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by ALEX-ANNA


As they are quickly becoming prolific MLNPstars, I asked ALEX-ANNA to share a little something about their relationship and why they decided to share their #realworldsex on MLNP.tv. They did not disappoint!


Hi Sarah,

It has been such a wonderful thing to be included and associated with MLNP.tv!

We are both expressive, and MLNP.tv has allowed us to share that with the world through our intimate and fun moments.

We also see sex as something other than porn. It is a chemistry, a bond between two people who care about each other, trust each other, give and take, and respect each other. MLNP.tv is refreshing as it endorses the art of making love.

We are both divorced with kids, having to juggle daily life with plenty of other demands, yet we find time in the bedroom to refresh ourselves, and have fun. We have both had plenty of experiences with others, but life with each other and our sexual approach is as unique as MLNP is to the world. We are excited to play a part in your revolutionary philosophy and hope others can begin to see sex the way we do. Thank you again for what you are doing, and allowing us to be part of your success.


Interested in sharing why your love MLNP.tv? Tweet me, leave us a message in the comments or email Sarah@makelovenotporn.tv.

You can read more from our MLNPstars and members in our #realworldinbox.



Happy Hump Day! Make Joyful Love Not Porn

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This week’s five new #realworldsex videos are all about the feeling of being with someone you just can’t get enough of!

Whether you’re watching married couple, wren+jude sneaking away to their bedroom like teenagers when the kids aren’t around or Ela Darling and Aaliyah Love swooning in each other’s arms and talking about how excited they are to be making love to one another, you’re sure to be thrilled by the admiration, tingles and sheer joy infused into our brand new #realworldsex videos.

MakingJoyfulLoveNotPorn this week: 

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  • #realworldpornstars and #realworldgirlfriends NikkiHearts and Kleio Valentien, suddenly bashful and feeling like they’re having sex for the first time when a camera is introduced into their dreamy off-camera love life.

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  • MLNPstars ALEX-ANNA in an appreciative moment where Anna finds herself so turned on by her boyfriend that she turns the camera on him.

  • Chubylovemaking, an adorable duo, whose first ever #realworldsex video features a grateful wife surprising her showering husband with a special treat.

  • wren+jude in a tender and gleeful afternoon romp.

Aaliyah Love Ela Darling

  • #realworldpornstars, MLNPstars and friends Ela Darling and Aaliyah Love, in a rapturous, effusive tryst:

“I’m better at sex than that!” was how Aaliyah Love summarized her desire to fuck me for MLNP.tv. I have had stars in my eyes for Aaliyah Love for over a year now. We befriended each other on Twitter and have been fawning over each other ever since. Back in January, we shared an unexpected yet rapturous make out session in Las Vegas at the Adult Entertainment Expo. I didn’t even notice the handsome gentleman who was trying to enjoy her company.

As soon as our eyes met, it was like a magnet was drawing us together and without a coherent word spoken, our lips met and our tongues caressed. Just like that, it was over and I was whisked away from her, and that was that for several weeks.

Then came the day we had both been waiting for: we were paired together for a porn scene. We would FINALLY get to enjoy each other’s bodies and it would be captured for all to see. And we did, and it was, and it was grand.

A few weeks later, Ms. Love texted me. She felt that the commercial and professional nature of our encounter inhibited us from fully enjoying the heights of our sexual exploration. She wanted a redo. Who the hell am I to argue when a physically perfect porn star texts me to ask for a chance to bang me again? Of course I obliged.

This video documents our second sexual rendezvous. No stylists, no camera man; just lust, champagne, and romantic sexual adoration. You can see the degree to which I’m transfixed with her in our intro video. I just sit there gracelessly, unable to take my eyes off her.

I would say that I hope you enjoy this video as much as I enjoyed making it, but I’m sorry to say that it’s just not possible. Aaliyah Love is a creature of divinity and nothing can compare to the bliss I felt being entwined with her, savoring the warmth of her beautiful skin, and intoxicating myself on her presence. None the less, I do hope you like what we’ve created.

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Ela


Can you blame any of our MLNPstars for not being able to get enough of each other?!

Go forth and get blissed-out watching them MakeJoyfulLoveNotPorn.

And, maybe film a little bit of your own bliss with the person or persons you can’t get enough of? Find some tips here.


David Cameron, don’t block porn, disrupt it / Wired

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Written by MLNP CEO and co-founder Cindy Gallop for wired.co.uk. Originally published August 14, 2013.

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“Dear David Cameron,

about your “war on porn”: you’re right, there’s an issue. A huge issue. One that I encountered very personally years ago through dating younger men, before the current media frenzy ever erupted, and launched Make Love Not Porn to tackle.

So you’re right to take action. But it’s the wrong action.

It’s precisely because we now live in an unprecedented era of ubiquitous access to porn online, that we can’t go on operating around sex and porn the way we always have — infused with shame and embarrassment, pretending neither exists. The solution isn’t blocking, filtering, censoring – closing down. The solution is opening up. “

You can read the rest of the letter here 


Porn can be a great way to delve into a fantasyland, but it’s a terrible means of sex education

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By Kara Price


I’m a retired porn star and I like porn. I think regular old porn is a good thing. I think rough porn is a good thing. I think lesbian porn, gay porn, straight porn, kinky porn, and romantic porn are great! I think (almost) all porn is good for the people who watch it because it allows them to explore their fantasies.

Porn is a great way to delve into a fantasy land, but it’s a terrible means of sex education. Porn shows us the possibilities. It shows us that we can have sex in crazy positions. It shows us that girls can squirt and that anal sex can be pleasurable. But porn doesn’t show us how to get into those crazy positions, how to learn to squirt, or how to have safe, pleasurable anal sex.

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Fans and friends often ask me how to play with anal toys and how to have anal sex. Often, they tell me that they tried to finger their partner’s bum or tried to have anal intercourse, but couldn’t get the cock/toy/finger in or didn’t think it felt good. In almost every case, I learned that the couple went right to the sex without much prep.

An anal porn scene starts after the performer cleans out her bum with a series of small warm water enemas and stretches herself with a toy or with her fingers. Often, the performers will get busy on set before filming so they can take their time with the first penetration.

On set, routines vary from porn star to porn star but everyone does something to prepare for anal sex before walking on set.

When we watch an anal porn scene we only see the hottest parts. We see a very horny seeming lady and delivery boy go from discussing pepperoni pizza *bow chicka wow wow* to stuffing his massive cock into her bum without much foreplay. We don’t see how porn stars make this happen.

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We don’t see all the prep that goes into these stunts, so we think that human bodies are supposed stretch on command and wonder what’s wrong with us if sex is more complicated than “open sesame.”

I talked to Lily Cade about this issue and we decided to make a how-to-anal movie that shows how we prepare for and have anal sex. We both really love anal sex and wanted to debunk the myth that anal sex is only pleasurable for men or somehow degrading for women. In our movie we explain why we like anal sex, how we hit the g-spot while having anal sex, and how anal sex makes us orgasm really, really hard.

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We wanted to make a movie where we show everything that goes into an anal porn scene and everything we do before having anal sex in real life. We explain our enema cleaning routines. We show how to choose and use several kinds of sex toys and strap-ons. We talk about lube. We show how we warm up and stretch our bums. (Lily and I do this quite differently.) We communicate more than you’ll see in any porn, and eventually get a little carried away and bang each others’ brains out!

We hope that our #realworldsex video makes you want to try anal sex. Watch this video if you think anal sex is degrading, painful, or only for porn stars. I want to change your mind. Watch this video if you want to learn how to get in touch with your bum and have amazing anal sex.

Oh,and I almost forgot– you should watch this movie if you want to see me and Lily Cade have really hot #realworldsex for the first time in almost a year!


Changing The World Through Business And Sex / Cindy Gallop’s MediaEvolution #theconf keynote (video)

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Watch Cindy speak at MediaEvolution’s The Conference in Malmo, Sweden Aug 21 on ‘Power, Disruption & Lies: Changing The World Through Business And Sex


Creating a new vocabulary for #realworldsex

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We all have sex. We all enjoy it. We don’t talk about it.

So we don’t have a socially acceptable, socially shareable vocabulary for sex in the #realworld – one that everyone is comfortable using both in general, public discussion, and as a way of articulating how much you enjoy what goes on in your intimate personal relationships, and what you’d like to do.

The language of porn has rushed in to fill that gap.

This isn’t ideal – especially speaking as a woman, because unsurprisingly, given how male-dominated the management of the mainstream porn industry is, the language of porn is predominantly generated by men.

The person who coined the term ‘fingerblasting’ didn’t have a vagina – because if you have a vagina, that term automatically makes you wince and want to cross your legs. (Well, it does in my case.) The person who came up with the term ‘getting your ass railed’ in straight porn, never had his ass railed. And while ‘bitch’, ‘whore’ and ‘slut’ can be turn-ons in mutually agreed and consensual dirty talk, to be addressed as such the very first time you get naked with someone can have quite the opposite effect – speaking for myself and for the many people who’ve shared similar experiences with me, from the regular male response when this approach is queried in a straight context – ‘But women in porn really like it when you call them that’…  through similar ‘porn soundtrack’ issues in a gay/lesbian context.

We all get vulnerable when we get naked. Quite often, we aren’t sure what to say in bed, or how to express ourselves verbally. We may have no other frame of reference for ‘how people communicate during sex’ than porn. Which can result in language, and modes of address, that are borrowed, inappropriate and not necessarily welcome. Or a reluctance to say anything at all – which is a shame, because talking and communicating during sex in whatever form you both (or all) enjoy, is part of the fun and can be a huge turn-on.

So here at MLNP we’d love you to help us build a new vocabulary for #realworldsex. You’ll already have seen that our tags are different from the usual industry-standard porn classifications – our co-founder and user experience goddess Oonie Chase explains how to browse and search with them currently. We’d love you to tell us what language you use to celebrate and communicate around #realworldsex in your own individual way. Further down the line, we’ll be asking you to tag with your own terms; for now, please tell us in the comment stream below what your favorite words and phrases are. We’d love to know so that we can enlarge the vocabulary of MLNP, and provide us all with language we can all take forward into the bedroom and beyond, to talk happily, unashamedly, vividly and creatively about #realworldsex.


The problem with porn / The Vine

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Written by Vanessa Murray for The Vine. Originally published August 28th, 2013.

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“There’s something about most of the porn I, ahem, *stumble* across on the internet that makes me uncomfortable. Deeply, cross my legs, bad taste in my mouth uncomfortable.

I like sex – but not this kind of sex. Call me prudish, but I’m just not into gangbanging. Or double penetration. You can leave out the gagging and choking, too.

These are the hallmarks of hardcore or gonzo porn that has come to dominate the porn scene over the past two decades, as pornographers like John ‘Buttman’ Stagliano seek to push the boundaries of human sexual behaviour with more physicality, more aggressiveness – just, more.” 

You can read the rest of the article here 


Teenagers and online porn: Let’s tackle it all – birds, bees, love and ‘slags’ / The Telegraph

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Written by Rowan Pelling for The Telegraph. Originally published on September 3rd, 2013.

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“My sex education at school was (quite literally) sketchy: our biology teacher drew fast and furious anatomical diagrams on a blackboard, as she barked us through the mechanics of sex with all the warmth of a pathologist conducting a particularly unsavoury autopsy. Condoms were recommended over the Pill, but more as a prophylactic against the shame of pregnancy than the more significant risk of chlamydia. Same-sex relationships weren’t mentioned, presumably because, like Queen Victoria, my then headmistress – a former missionary – didn’t believe in them.

How unlike the local academy today. According to a friend’s teenage daughter, pupils there were recently given a sexuality and prejudice workshop by a group of visiting educators, in which they were asked to identify which members of the party were gay. My friend’s child was worried that it was a trick question, and therefore identified the woman with a buzz cut and butch boots as straight, incorrectly.”

Read the rest of the article here.



NSPCC: ‘Girls think they have to act like porn stars to be liked by boys / The Telegraph

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Written by Louisa Peacock and Emma Barnett for The Telegraph. Originally published on September 3rd, 2013.

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Almost a third of school pupils believe online pornography dictates how young people have to behave in a relationship, the study of 601 pupils aged 11 to 18 reveals.

The majority of pupils surveyed – 72 per cent – also said porn should be talked about in sex education classes, suggesting existing lessons are too focused on the mechanics of reproduction and lack meaningful discussion about the issues young people face online every day.

Claire Lilley, policy advisor at NSPCC, said: “It’s natural for children to become curious about puberty and sex. If they are not learning what they need to at school or at home they will turn elsewhere, including to porn. What pornography teaches boys is that girls are for sexual gratification, whilst girls feel they have to look and perform like ‘porn stars’ to be liked and valued by boys. This makes children vulnerable to being forced or pressured into behaving sexually.”

Read the rest of the article here.


Behind the camera: how selfies bring authenticity into focus / Medium

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Written by Adrienne LaFrance for Medium. Originally published in September, 2013. 

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“You can’t get the porn off the internet, but you can make better porn,” xs51 wrote in a message through the site. “We’re not producers, but we give people a place to exhibit themselves where no one gets hurt and people are in it purely for the fun of it! … But since there’s no financial incentive, I think our posters are far less likely to post something they aren’t comfortable with.”

Other online communities have developed around the idea of making better, more empowering pornography. MakeLoveNotPorn.TV is a site that bills itself “Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference,” and runs on a profit-sharing model that gives money from rentals back to people who upload their own sex videos.

“I think there’s a real relationship between what happens offline and what happens online,” said the site’s curator, Sarah Beall. “Real world sex in a way that isn’t usually celebrated and showcased; consensual, free of porn cliches.”

Read the rest of the article here.


In our opinion, pornstars don’t get paid nearly enough for what they do

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I wanted to share this post from Kayden Kross, both because it’s excellent advice for anyone looking to work in porn, and because it demonstrates why our MLNP business model is the opposite of the porn industry’s. Pornstars are paid by the scene; that scene will go on to be viewed billions of times (literally) and the actors never see a cent from that popularity. Every other industry fights for residuals as their right; there’s no support for doing that in this one. At MLNP we believe that when you create something that gives people pleasure, you should see a financial return on it – and the more people your work gives more pleasure to, the greater that financial return should be. We’re delighted a number of our MakeLoveNotPornstars are making four figures at each payout (and so are they!).
I would also just like to say that in my opinion $1,000 a scene (and that’s if you’re lucky in porn) is way, way, WAY too low for the work that pornstars do.

What to expect when you’re expecting a porn career 

Written by Kayden Kross. Originally published August 14, 2013.

“I hate to see girls come into porn anymore. It’s not a jealousy thing, I swear. I wouldn’t trade places with them. I first signed as a solo model for Hustler at the AVN show in January of 2006. I remember it was overwhelming. Cliches are generally tired descriptions because they’re accurate and this was the closest I’d ever been to what you’d call a sea of a people; every man with a camera like some cell floating alongside the next camera-head and the next and the next. The crowd that year was like a great undulating surface of thinning hair and baseball caps beneath which we may never know the depths. They thought I was someone because I stood behind a booth and had a headshot. They swarmed. Never before or since have that many people paid attention to me at once.”

You can read the rest of her blog piece here


Watch free peeks and other goodies on our Youtube channel!

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Pssst.

Did you know that even if you don’t yet have a makelovenotporn.tv account, you can still watch many of our free peeks on the MLNP.tv youtube?

Yep, you read that right, partner. What’s more, we also post how-to’s, interesting research and other musings.

Whether you already love what MLNP.tv is all about or want to check out some of our free peeks before creating an account, consider subscribing to our channel!


Check out our most recently added free peek courtesy of Modesty Ablaze:


Happy Hump Day! Make Lily Cade Love Not Porn

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This week’s Hump Day edition is dedicated to one of our most prolific MLNPstars, the fabulous Lily Cade. A supporter of MLNP.tv ever since she found herself rather to her surprise with Cindy as her date on the red carpet at the 2012 AVN Awards, Lily has thrilled our community with video after video of the hot-as-hell #realworldsex she shares with her #realworldfriends – many of whom have #realworldporncareers of their own.

Insatiable and incredibly intuitive when it comes to teasing and pleasing her lovers, Lily seems to have no shortage of beautiful women willing to join her in filming their #realworldsex. And, because the sex Lily and her friends capture for MLNP.tv is #realworldsex just the way they like it in the #realworld, with all the natural communication and spontaneity left in, her videos often give rise to a discussion about the differences between #realworldsex and #pornworldsex.

Whether she’s experiencing a new lover for the very first time, or reconnecting with an old friend, Lily’s videos highlight just how much MLNP.tv has empowered #realworldpornstars and given them a platform to discuss their own perspectives and views. It has been riveting to see how Lily and her #realworldpornstar friends have embraced the philosophy of MLNP.tv and how it has allowed them to articulate the differences between what might simply look good and what actually feels good.

An especially wonderful example of this is Lily Cade and Aaliyah Love’s chatty, sexy, bedroom-funtime which starts off with Aaliyah talking about the discomfort of performing a very popular #pornworldsex position in high heels. Then, Lily talks about why she finds Aaliyah irresistible - she’s petite and blonde, yes, but what really gets Lily going is how these physical features come combined with a sweet, intelligent mind. Aaliyah is sexy and fun and stimulating to be around, and while there’s plenty of physical attraction between them, there’s also something more.

In all of her videos, Lily Cade really makes an effort to connect with her lovers and this results in #realworldsex that smoulders with the kind of #realworldwickedawesomehumaness we like to see on MLNP.tv!

Experience the fabulous that is Lily Cade over and over again:

Annabelle and Lily

This living room orgasm-fest between close friends Annabelle Lee and Lily Cade is nearing the status of a MLNP.tv ‘classic’. In addition to being the first video ever submitted by Lily, it has also been credited with helping a married couple conceive their second child! If that doesn’t have you running to check it out, a taste of the hungry, giddy way Annabelle and Lily feast on each other surely will.


Nikki and Lily

Lily cast Nikki Darling in her film Lesbian Lock-up and invited her to stay at her place in LA before the shoot. Thinking it would be a good idea to get to know each other’s bodies and turn-ons before having #pornworldsex, they decide to have #realworldsex and record it for MLNP.tv. Lily shows Nikki her favorite lube and Nikki lets Lily turn her into a human pretzel on the couch while they test out a new strap-on. We’re not surprised when Lily says, “we hit it off so well that we ended up hooking up again, off camera, and getting no sleep before shooting the movie the next day!”


Lovely and Lily

Lovely and Lily met at a drag show Lily was performing in and even though Lovely said she was straight, they ended up making out. Overcome with an intense attraction to Lily, Lovely asked this gold star lesbian if she would be her first female lover. With scorching hot chemistry between them and a confidence that makes it hard to believe they don’t know each other better, this video shows two women going at each other with no-holds-barred lust and a forceful desire to get one another off.


Ruby and Lily

Ruby and Lily are #realworldbestfriends who like to hang out, go for coffee and occasionally enjoy #realworldsex together. As #realworldgirlfriends do, they bought some cute outfits for St-Patrick’s Day. But, instead of heading out to a parade they have their own sexy little celebration in the comfort of Lily’s living room, where in addition the chatting about nail polish and shoes, they make hungry love to one another.


Tilly and Lily

Introduced by mutual friend, Pepper Kester, Lily and model Tilly McReese are immediately transfixed by one another. With Pepper acting as camera woman, the plan is to have #realworldsex on the couch. Things heat up quickly, however, and soon they tumble to the floor – a development that allows them to take up space as they indulge in some red-hot #realworldsex.

Kara and Lily

Friends, occasional lovers and #realworldpornstars LilyandKara, love anal sex. But, they know that pleasurable #realworldanalsex requires the kind of communication and preparation that is rarely given the time of day on-camera. In this long, passionate video watch them show off their vast knowledge of their own bodies and warm up with various toys before they pull each other close and get completely lost in each other’s arms.

Thelma and Lily

Thelma is a self-identified kinky lesbian submissive, so before she and Lily start their first ever sexytime together, they share a discussion about their likes, dislikes and boundaries. Thelma likes ropes, role play and rough sex and Lily is happy to oblige her, taking note of exactly the right kind of pressure and intensity  her lover wants in this homespun BDSM “scene.”


Aaliyah and Lily

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In this aforementioned chatty, sexy, bedroom-funtime, Aaliyah Love and Lily Cade share laughs and orgasms just the way they like it. Totally comfortable with one other, while at the same time extremely turned on, they keep their conversation going throughout the action only stopping to let out moans of pleasure and bursts of giggles.


Ela and Lily

It’s no secret that #realworldlesbianpornstars and #realworldfriends Ela Darling and Lily Cade are thrilled to finally be having no-holds-barred #realworldsex. Having anxiously awaited Lily’s arrival, Ela finds it impossible to resist Lily’s charms when she shows up for their date dressed as a cowboy - something that drives Texas-native, Ela, wild. Soon stripped down to just boots and chaps, these two take turns devouring each other on Ela’s #realworldbed.


Thelma and Lily

Lily wants to give her friend and lover, Thelma, a birthday present she won’t soon forget. And, well, as Thelma gives her that look that says “how the *&^% are you doing that?!” you’ll know that she succeeded. Expect first-time g-spot orgasms for Thelma and a momentarily overpowered Lily in this happy birthday romp.


MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is a platform where people like YOU can share your #realworldsex and see #realworldsex celebrated as being the best sex there is! Learn more about our submission guidelines here.

Just like Lily Cade and her friends, lets TALK ABOUT the difference between #pornworldsex and #realworldsex. Join the conversation happening on MLNP.com or leave your thoughts in the comments.

Follow @lily_cade on twitter and check out her personal site!


Gamechanger: A conversation with Dana Vespoli / X Critic

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We love this interview Sovereign Syre did with Dana Vespoli, because we empathize with everything they say, and wanted to share it with you.


 

 

Originally written by Sovereign Syre for X Critic. Published on September 11th, 2013.

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“Born in the Pacific Northwest to an American mother and Thai father, she attended Mills College where she was captain of the rowing team (she named herself after a brand of racing shell) and became fluent in French.  She graduated with a degree in comparative literature and got work in the corporate world, but found it degrading and, well boring.  She spent time as a stripper at the legendary Mitchel Brothers Gentlemen’s Club in San Francisco and eventually moved out to LA to pursue commercial modeling and acting work before eventually taking the plunge into porn.

She had a lot of amazing wild sex on camera, developed a coke habit that involved long stretches of living out of hotels on the Sunset Strip, sobered up, settled down, got married, got a lot of tattoos, and had some children.

She’s loves anal sex, Ryan Gosling, and steak.  She shops at Whole Foods.  And she drives an SUV.

You really just can’t get any more All-American than that.”

Read the rest of the article here.


Happy Hump Day! Make Modesty Ablaze Love Not Porn!

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This week’s edition is dedicated to the TenderThrillingTiedUp #realworldsex shared between Modesty Ablaze, her husband and frequent partner-in-crime, lover no. 14.

In many ways an average middle-aged, British couple with jobs, children and family vacations, Modesty and her husband share a fulfilling and slightly unconventional #realworldsexlife behind closed doors. And, while certainly not everyone indulges in rope play, threesomes and caning, what makes their #realworldmarriedsexlife truly not-average is the way in which they continue to explore new possibilities and feel as amorous and adventurous as ever.

Is it really such an uncommon experience to have fulfilling #realworldsex after years of marriage? Or, as Modesty wrote in a guest post for this blog, is this just part of a natural evolution of a strong bond and an already pleasurable #realworldsexlife?

What I find most striking about Modesty Ablaze’s #realworldsex videos is that they show a woman in her 50s having the best sex of her life in a way that is tender, intense and incredibly fulfilling – something we rarely see depicted outside #pornworldsex. She and her husband have clearly done the work “behind the scenes” that allows her to surrender to sensation and let go completely in these moments. It’s incredibly inspirational to see Modesty, a beautiful but not ‘model-perfect’ older woman, experiencing wave after wave of pleasure on her own terms.

Certainly, Modesty Ablaze and her husband can’t be alone in sharing phenomenal #realworldsex as part of their everyday lives! Regardless of your circumstances and whatever mind-blowing #realworldsex is to you, I encourage you to share your #realworldsex on MLNP.tv so that we can celebrate and continue to create a place for #everydayphenomenalrealworldsex!


Set your modesty ablaze and surrender to these five videos:

Playful pleasures…

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In this lighthearted, surprising and deeply erotic session, Modesty’s husband steps out from behind the camera to frolic with his wife as lover. 14 films. The level of comfort and comraderie between these three will charm you as they take their time to joke and sip wine while lover. 14 warms Modesty up with tender kisses. After an incredible interaction between husband and wife, you’ll be thrilled as Modesty is blindsided by an explosive orgasm that leaves her biting the bedsheets!


Bound and unbound…

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Tied up in ropes and blindfolded, Modesty Ablaze becomes a woman unbound. With the artful bondage crafted by lover no. 14 acting as a constant reminder to let go and surrender to her deepest desires, she submits fully to her two lovers. What starts slowly and teasingly, evolves into an intense full-on threesome that shows a liberated woman at her sexual peak. Ending with Modesty crumpled in a ball on the bed, completely satisfied and spent, her confidence will inspire you to push your own limits.


Awash with sensation…

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Modesty, her husband and lover no. 14 walk the line between pleasure and pain in a sensual exploration that includes caneing, whipping and plenty of delirious giggles. The contrast between the intense sensation of the cane and whip, combined with the soft touch of her lovers’ skilled hands, stimulates Modesty’s entire body, heightening her senses and drowning her in pleasure until she can’t take it anymore.


Self-love and then some…

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Lying back on their bed, Modesty lets her husband watch her indulge in self-pleasure. After plenty of warming up with just her fingers, she slowly makes love to herself with her favorite anal toy. Finally, she allows her enthralled husband to join in, creating a soundtrack of moans and gasps reflecting #realworldmaritalbliss.


Can’t get enough of Modesty Ablaze? After devouring all of her #realworldsex videos on MLNP.tv, head over to her blog where you can read about her #realworldsex adventures! You can purchase even more detailed recountings of her sexual escapades in her five part e-book series, The Modesty Ablaze Diaries.

Feeling inspired to share your own #realworldsex on MLNP.tv? Fabulous! Check out these tips and feel free to email me at Sarah@makelovenotporn.tv with any additional questions you may have.



It seems like a lifetime ago since we built up the courage to click the ‘upload’ button for the first time, and we can’t believe how much we have enjoyed making our subsequent videos

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by MLNPstars Redfox

Hi to all our fellow MLNP.tv members. Redfox here, checking in with some thoughts on our experiences as contributors over the past few months.

Things have certainly moved on since our last blog contribution; there have been many new contributors which is great for the site (variety is the spice of life and all that). Up to now we have posted nine videos since we joined up in January of this year…nine! It seems like a lifetime ago since we built up the courage to click the ‘upload’ button for the first time, and we can’t believe how much we have enjoyed making our subsequent videos.

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We never intended or expected us to be so active, but we have both certainly enjoyed the thrill of making our new videos (the most fun part of all!) and feeling our confidence grow as our rental stats rise.

We are definitely more at ease now with the whole process as our experience has grown. It has certainly become more natural now to grab the camera and shoot when the mood hits us, and we have learned that a two minute quickie video can turn out to just as big a turn on to watch as a two hour session.

Our experiences have also given us so much pleasure being able to see ourselves at our most intimate and passionate; we particularly enjoy watching our finished videos together before we agree to upload them or not (a process which often leads to new videos being created there and then!).

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One of the other added benefits of late has been our joy at spending our MLNP earnings. We have been so delighted with our earnings and it has been great to use the money to spoil the whole family a bit; we used some to finance a cool weekend break for us and the kids, and I have just booked myself in for a boudoir photography session; something I have wanted to do for ages as a treat for myself and of course my husband…..

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The lovely Sarah asked us once what tips we would have for other MLNP.tv contributors. Gosh, I mean we are novices ourselves, but I will say that we have learned a few things over the past few months.

  • First of all I would encourage spontaneity where possible. Believe us when we say we know how difficult this can be…but when it works out it really is great.
  • Also, leave plenty of lights on, which I also know can be a bit unnerving but it makes the videos look so much better if like us you don’t have or use fancy equipment!
  • Lastly, don’t be afraid to try something new and definitely don’t be afraid to fail….who cares if one attempt at a video turns out to be..well..a bit rubbish. The most fun part is getting to try again, right?

So there you go, our words of wisdom…kind of! I will finish off by saying that we have thoroughly enjoyed our MLNP experience .

My husband and I have always enjoyed a healthy sex life but I must admit that our recent foray into movie making has added an extra dimension to our love life. We both always really look forward to our next filming session, and we both talk more about the sort of things we would like to try or see.

We hope to be part of the success of the site for some time to come and a big thanks to everyone who has supported us and helped give us the confidence to add more material; we hope you have enjoyed watching as much as we have enjoyed making.


Read more guest posts and inspiring feedback from our MLNPstars in our #realworldinbox.

Interested in enjoying our #realworldsex videos with your partner? Read this post about the benefits of enjoying adult videos together.

Considering firing-up your already wonderful #realworldsexlife and making a video of your own? Check out these tips.


Happy Hump Day! Make Just Because Love Not Porn

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Happy Hump Day! I thought it would be fun this week to give you the rundown our six great new #realworldsex videos using the magic of my iphone camera. Enjoy!


MakingJustBecauseLoveNotPorn this week:

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Brand new MLNPstars, Cato, make their MLNP.tv debut this week with two laid-back, cozy and sensual #realworldsex videos. Together for 5 years and still unable to get enough of each other, this young Mexican couple make love for the fun of it. In their first video, see them make the most of a cold, rainy day by turning up the heat in their bed. Their intense gazes and tender caresses warm things up so much, even their cat wants in on the action!


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Redfox spend a Thursday night engaging in some sexy playtime that sees the Mrs. cuffed to the bed and blindfolded. Not one to let a pesky broken forearm get in the way of his wife’s fun, Red skillfully teases Fox until she can’t take it anymore and begs to be untied so she can please him in return.


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ALEX-ANNA decide a beautiful, late-summer day is the perfect opportunity to take one last spin on their motorcycle before the weather gets cold. Soon the wind in their hair and the feeling of the powerful engine between their legs has them so turned on that they double back to the garage for another kind of end-of-summer ride…on the motorcycle!


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It’s Pride week and Kara Price’s friend Zoe has decided to celebrate by having her first-ever lesbian experience with none other than lilycade! Nervous at first and not quite sure what to expect, Zoe’s trepidation vanishes as Lily pounces on her, kicking off a near-hour of tender lesbian seduction.


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After enjoying a lovely meal filled with stimulating conversation, Modesty Ablaze, her husband and lover no. 14 retire to the bedroom. The fun continues as lover no. 14 binds Modesty with ropes and gently teases her with a cane and whip. Transported to her own little world of pleasure, Modesty gives in to sensation and is rewarded with wave after wave of orgasms, topped off with tender cuddles on the bed.


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One of Cato‘s favorite ways to wind-down after work and enjoy each other’s company is to order delivery and make love while waiting for dinner to arrive. At first taking their time to kiss and simply enjoy being together, they allow a natural intensity to build before making love on every last inch of their bed.


What’s your favorite way to MakeJustBecauseLoveNotPorn? Share your #realworldsex on MLNP.tv and help celebrate the way #realworldpassion #realworldlove and #realworldlust exist in our everyday lives.


Happy Hump Day! Make Down to Earth Love Not Porn

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This week’s four new #realworldsex videos are all about having fun and feeling good in the most downtoearth way. They’re about being cozily close to someone and taking the time to make love in a way that heals, de-stresses and puts a smile on their face (and yours, of course). Whether unwinding after a long day like ALEX-ANNA or planning a surprise outdoor romp for your special someone like AprilShowers, these videos will give you a downtoearth, feelgood sensation you just might want to share!


Making Downtoearth Love Not Porn:

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Brand new MLNPstar, AprilShowers, takes advantage of a beautiful Spring day by getting some gardening done AND enjoying some al fresco #realworldsex! Surprising her husband by watering the greenhouse sans panties, this happy duo are soon making love right out in the fresh air.


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Lying head to toe, adorable couple ALEX-ANNA talk about their day. First soothing each other’s stress with soft reassurances, they soon find themselves looking to ease the tension of a long day with some spontaneous #realworldsex. Both tender and intense, these two show us just how to unwind after work.


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AprilShowers and her husband love videoing their #realworldsex so they can watch it together later. In this video, April lets her husband be the voyeur as she gets herself good and warmed up with her favorite vibrator. Then, urging him to join in, they take their time pleasuring each other every which way while occasionally catching a glimpse of themselves in the camera’s lens.


What does downtoearth #realworldsex look like to you? Show us by sharing your own #realworldsex on MLNP.tv!


Happy Hump Day! Make Stay At Home Love Not Porn

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Daily life can be hectic. Between work, school, and other obligations, it can feel like all we do is rush, rush, rush. Like MLNPstars Cato, our weekends are often dedicated to things like chores and grocery shopping with hopefully a little bit of fun sprinkled in between.

And for the most part this is a workable system. Until one day, just as you’re heading out the door, your lover takes off all their clothes, lies down on the bed and becomes so absolutely irresistible your obligations seem to evaporate and you spend the rest of the afternoon wrapped in a cocoon of #realworldsex.

And it’s SOOO worth it.

Whether it’s April Showers and her hubby spending a night in by the fire instead of going out on the town, or brand new MLNPstar Chainsaw escaping the city in favor of some sun-drenched metime in the middle of a field, this week’s five new videos are all about making the most of staying in one spot.

MakingStayAtHomeLoveNotPorn this week:

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MLNPstar Lily Labeau is back! And, this time she’s spending an afternoon in bed with her new lover Fin. The waning light peeking through the blinds decorates these two’s bodies beautifully and the chemistry between them is intense to say the least.


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Our Mexican MLNPstars are dedicated to making time for #realworldsex! With the kind of intensity and familiarity that only comes from being in a relationship with someone you know so well but somehow never stops driving you wild, these two start slow and sensual and finishing screaming and soaked.


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Brand new MLNPstar, Chainsaw, provides us with a full-on, outdoor, metime #realworldsex video complete with a soundtrack of chickens clucking and birds chirping! Away from the city and his lover, but still thinking of them, he lays down in the sunshine and pleasures himself in the open air.


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The lovely EllaBella is back! And this time she’s treating us to not only her beautiful face in the throws of orgasm, but her entire body, too! EllaBella knows you don’t have to leave home or even be in the same location to have #realworldsex with a lover and in this video she shows us just how hot and satisfying #realworldcybersex can be.


April Showers

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April Showers and her husband just love spending time alone together at home, making love and seeing where the moment will take them. In this video, originally shot for their eyes only, April sticks another log on the fire, gushes all over the place and then things heat up so much she gets into a round of backdoor exploration!


Feel like staying in tonight? What’s your favorite way to MakeLoveNotPorn around your home? Share it with us and celebrate more #StayAtHome #realworldsex!


My Sex Bucket List: Making Love, Not Porn

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Written by MsQuote for A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind. Originally published on October 23rd, 2013. Reposted with permission.


I’m sure that I’m not making any big revelations by saying that Make Love Not Porn is a wonderful site with incredible videos. Its videos are of real people having real sex – people of all ages and all body types — the kinds of couples you see shopping at Macy’s or having dinner at P.F. Chang’s. They’re videos that you can see and feel the excitement, enjoyment and sensuality of people having sex — things that can’t be scripted, acted or faked (if they are at all) in most porn videos.

I told my lover, Parrot, about Make Love Not Porn before we set out to make our own sex tape (read: Why I’m Glad We Made a Sex Tape and Lights, Camera … Aaaaaah!). I knew he’d appreciate it partly because I knew he’d want to research every resource for making the kind of sex tape he wanted to make – from content to filming and editing techniques.

A few days after he completed the video, he asked, “What do you think of submitting a video to Make Love Not Porn? It’s a fantasy of mine.”

Originally, we agreed that our video would be for our eyes only. If he wanted to share it with anyone (I had a feeling that he’d want to share it with his best buddy, and I was OK with that), I asked that he would not share the file online. He knew that I had concerns about the video possibly being seen by the wrong eyes – family and work associates.

“I could crop out and blur any identifying features,” he said.

And, of course, I don’t have the sexiest and most in-shape body, but after I saw our video, the passion and the hotness was all about our interaction — just like the couples in the Make Love Not Porn videos.

At first I was concerned that cropping our faces would deter from the allure and integrity of the video. Would people want to watch a sex tape if they couldn’t see faces and expressions?

I took a closer look at some of the videos in the archives and saw that some couples had made some really enticing videos without revealing identifiable features with some really creative editing.

I went back and took another look at the full-length video Parrot shot and edited of the private times we shared during our weekend in the Sonoma Valley – making love in our bed at the B&B, the outlines of us bathing ourselves on the other side of a pebbled glass shower door, our au naturel picnic above the shoreline of Lake Sonoma. I was proud of it and willing to share the details in words in my blog. Why not share the visuals – discreetly, of course?

Before long, I was throwing out possible scenes and scenarios for our next video that we plan on sharing on Make Love Not Porn.

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