Written by Justin J Lehmiller, for Psychology Today. Originally published on September 27, 2019.
Adolescents today have greater access to a wider range of pornographythan any previous generation. So how is it affecting them?
This question is the crux of a new episode of Lisa Ling’s CNN series This is Life titled “Porn Ed,” which premieres September 29. Ling wanted to better understand how accessibility to porn is changing the way adolescents and young adults think about sex and approach relationships.
I had a chance to preview the episode and sit down with Ling to discuss it. While there’s much that we agree on, including the idea that porn is not an effective substitute for sex education, there are some aspects of the episode that I worry could potentially leave viewers with the wrong impression of how porn impacts people, especially the idea that it is “addictive.” The show focuses on people’s personal opinions about and experiences with porn and doesn’t explore the science—in fact, no researchers or doctors are interviewed on screen during the episode. So while it’s certainly a thought-provoking show, there were some missed opportunities for a data-driven discussion.
Below is a lightly edited transcript of my conversation with Ling that focuses on the areas where we agree, but also the areas where science and medicine diverge from some of the things claimed by those who were interviewed in the episode.
Justin Lehmiller: In this episode, you interview people who see porn as a source of danger and problems, but you also talk to people like Cindy Gallop who see potential value in adult videos that are capturing real-life sex. When you put those different conversations together, what’s your take on whether porn itself is inherently good or bad, or is it neutral?
Lisa Ling: Our episode really isn’t a condemnation of porn. I do think that for some people, there may be value to porn. And I would never begrudge sex workers because I actually think that there are sex workers out there who are performing a real service. My big concern is just the abundance of material that’s out there—some of which is really extreme—and how easy kids can access it. You know, when you talk about what Cindy’s trying to do with her website, Make Love Not Porn, they are defiant about the fact that they are not porn. They are providing people with an experience of what real sex should look like. It’s not always clean and it’s sometimes messy. It’s sometimes funny. It sometimes doesn’t really work very well. And I do think that there is value in that. I do think that we should be exposed to how beautiful and meaningful sex can be. It’s part of who we are, right?
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